Trying…or Not

“I tried that and it didn’t work!” This has got to be one of the Top Ten favorite statements of my clients – hands down, top ten! Here’s the interesting point however – when we probe a bit deeper it comes to be that ‘tried’ means they did it once, maybe twice, and...

Its All in How You Look at It

We’ve talked in the past about the importance of how we frame any given situation will dramatically impact our beliefs about that situation. Is the doctor just poorly organized and is that the reason she’s “keeping me waiting” or is it that someone with a more...

The Effects of Long Term Stress on the Brain

As you may imagine my work as a coach varies greatly depending on what my clients bring to the table each week. Recently a trying to Thrive attorney brought to my attention that he was struggling with his memory. Struggling so much in fact that his doctor had...

Back to Basics: Taking Care

Me: Are you taking care of yourself through this time? Client: Sure, no problems with that! Me: Really? This sounds like a really tough time and taking care of yourself must be a real challenge. It is very impressive that you’re doing it so well! Client: Well, to tell...